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Angie on November 26, 2008 at 11:18 AM said:

Hello everyone...I miscarried May 5, 2008 and September 30, 2008. I have had a really hard time, especially after the second one, which happened on my 30th birthday. My husband and I are going to try to conceive again in December. It helps to know that there are other people who understand what we have been through. It seems like people who haven't experienced a miscarriage have a hard time understanding how much pain and agony that is involved. Thank-you for such a helpful website!

Rae on November 25, 2008 at 10:48 PM said:

I miscarried on Nov 10. I was about 8 weeks along. I have a hard time dealing with this because we were trying for almost two years. We finely conceived after one month of clomid. I am 27 and everyone keeps telling me I am young and have nothing to worry about. But it took forever and we did not get to keep it. Doctor says we have to wait about 2-3 cycles to try again. Very worried it will happen again.

Michelle on November 25, 2008 at 06:54 AM said:

I suffered a miscarriage on October 20th, I thought I was 12 weeks along at the time, but there was no heartbeat and they figure the baby was 8 or 9 weeks. I noticed a little blood (a hairline amount) on a Friday, I called the Dr. in tears they told me to rest with my feet up for the weekend and as long as I didn't have cramping it was probably ok. I continued spotting the same amount throughout the weekend. I went in on Monday morning and the ultrasound showed no heartbeat. I was so devastated, but I guess deep down, I knew. I was losing pregnancy symptoms. This was our 2nd pregnancy we have a beautiful 2 year old "Kenna". I had the D&C procedure performed that afternoon, it was very emotional, but out of our control. My husband has been wonderful and I know he's been suffering too, but after a week or 2 things have gotten much better and my body is back to normal. I am a little worried about Thanksgiving and having to see my cousin's wife who is also expecting and is due approx. 1 month after my due date was. I also have a friend pregnant and another cousin due in March, so it's hard for me to see them knowing that I should've been expecting also. I just pray for the strength to get through these diffucult situations. My daughter has been a big help for us while coping during this difficult time. I know there is another baby meant for us some day soon.

Kirsten on November 24, 2008 at 09:04 AM said:

I am so grateful to all of you who have posted comments. I have three beautiful children ages 9, 5, and 2. I have recently surrived 2 misscarrages, one at the end of August and one on November 18th, both pregnancy's were about 8 weeks along. I plan on getting pregnant again soon. Reading all of your stories has given me so much strength, and makes me so grateful for my blessings that I have. I couldn't imagine carrying the pregnancies for more time than I did and then losing them. Time does heal, and Heavenly Father will bless us, I have found great commfort through my prayers. I wish happiness for all of you!!

? on November 23, 2008 at 07:40 AM said:

Kim,

Sorry you had to go thru that. I miscarried a 8 weeks. About 5 weeks later i had a period. And then we tried again. They do say to leave it for a while before trying again, but we didnt want to wait. Were almost 17 weeks pregnant now and due in early May. Best wishes to you.

Tara on November 20, 2008 at 06:49 PM said:

My husband and I were pregnant for the first time after only trying for one month and were so excited and couldn't believe it happened so fast. Then yesterday at 5 weeks I woke up and knew something wasn't right, and when I went to the bathroom my suspicions were confirmed, I miscarried. We went to the Dr.s for an ultrasound and there was nothing to be seen. I know it's nature's way but it still hurts. I want a family so badly but am now so scared to try again for fear of it happening again. I know people go on to have healthy babies, but I am scared to death. I don't want to go through this again.

Brandilyn on November 18, 2008 at 11:56 AM said:

I just foud out a week ago today that my daughter inside me had no heart beat. I knew the day before but still had hope, maybe she's sleeping alot. I was 24weeks and felt her move constantly, I miss that so much now. It's not fair. I believe in my heart that there is a bigger picture but I cant help but not want that "big picture". I'm very lucky to have a 4 year old son that is loving, caring, beautiful. He has been talking about the baby saying "I love you" kissing my belly telling her goodnight. I've told him that the babys not in there anymore, she was sick and the Dr. had to take her out and she is in heaven. He's young and I know he will say something again later on. We were all ready for her. She was suppose to be the last person to make my life complete and it has all been taken away. I got to hold her and I'm scared I'm going to forget that moment. Every one says I wont but I just dont want it to fade. My sympathy to everyone who has experienced this.

Kim on November 18, 2008 at 09:09 AM said:

I miscarried Oct 20. I am still trying to cope with the loss. But I am curious to find out how long it took for your body/menstrual cycle to return to 'normal'? Thanks.

Hope on November 17, 2008 at 11:14 AM said:

I had a D&C on Oct. 17th. This was my first miscarriage. I am a mother of 3 ages 13, 11, and 8. This pregnacy was a blessed surpirse for my husband and I. The hardest part of all of this is wondering why God would give us such a blessing then take it away? I have been a faithfull christian for a long time....... Needless to say, I am trying to work through all of this with a couple close friends, my counselor, and my patient, loving husband. We have decided to try to get pregnant again. I'm scared!I am afriad it will happen again. My heart breaks for all who have posted on this site. Hopefully, we will all be holding our precious little ones very soon.

Rachel on November 15, 2008 at 09:45 PM said:

I just had my second miscarriage. The doctor in the ER was absolutely awful to me. I told him I had numerous positive home pregnancy tests and planned parenthood had confirmed my pregnancy, but he said my period which is 30 days like clockwork was 2 weeks late and I was never pregnant. How dare he say my baby never existed? And the nurses just agreed with him. The OB said he was full of BS-his words-and he had no doubt I was pregnant. He was worth every penny I paid out of pocket.(This is the first time in 12 years we dont have insurance). Why can't who have had miscarriages get some compasssion. I don't have any children, just two angels.

Amanda on November 14, 2008 at 01:16 PM said:

Wow,I felt like I was all alone until I found this site. I miscarried at 14 weeks on September 19th. It was the most horrible day of my life. My husband and I are trying again, and I am hopeful that things will work out this time. It's getting easier each day, but I still have my emotional days. Good luck to everyone!

Ashley on November 13, 2008 at 08:13 PM said:

Yesterday I went to my ob for a routine checkup. There, my doctor discovered that my baby had no heartbeat. I was supposed to be 10 weeks and 1 day, but apparently my baby stopped growing at 9 weeks. I am scheduled to have a D and C tomorrow afternoon. I am so sad and angry! I cant stop crying! This is my first pregnancy, and though it was unplanned and very unexpected, I became very attached and overjoyed, and now I feel like my world is coming to an end! I feel broken... less of a woman! My boyfriend is doing his best right now, but I feel like he just doesnt get it! Will it ever get better???

hlgillispie on November 11, 2008 at 10:14 PM said:

I just recently found out that I had a miscarriage. The doctors estimated that I was about 6 weeks along. On Thursday, October 30 2008 I started bleeding. It was like a normal period just heavier with clots. I went to the doctor that day and they did the blood test. My beta number was a 6. The following Monday they did another blood test to be sure that my numbers were droping and it was a 1. In all reality had I not taken a pregnancy test I would have never known. All of my pregnancy symptoms went away almost immediately. However, today I have noticed that my breast hurt (they kind of feel how your breast feel after your milk starts to dry up after you have a baby but on a much smaller scale). They also have gotten darker around the nipples and I do have those bumps more pronounced. I am just wondering if anyone has experienced this after a miscarriage. I have only had sex once since my miscarriage (November 8) And I wouldn't think it would be showing so soon if I was infact pregnant again. However, it is confussing bc my breast did not really hurt until now. If any one has any ideas on what this could be I would love to hear it bc I have no idea what could be going on.

Time will heal on November 10, 2008 at 09:51 AM said:

Hi to everyone. I signed in a while back. I lost my first baby in June at 8 wks. I was devastated. I still feel sad when i think of it but i am happy to say that i am 15 wks pregnant tomorrow. We decided to try again straight away. I am anxious and nervous this time around, i find it hard to let myself get happy and im afraid of something happening again. But please God everything will be fine. I know that a miscarriage is very hard to deal with but time will heal. It doesnt mean i have forgotten my first i havent. I wish everyone out there the best for the future. My heart goes out to all of u who have suffered but please dont give up hope. This site is a great help. Tks.

jaimec on November 7, 2008 at 10:16 PM said:

I found out that i had a missed miscarriage on the 15th of October, I felt that was highly ironic as it was world miscarriage day.I went for a 10 week scan and i probably had miscarried at 7 weeks. If it helps it does get easier, I still have my god awful days where everyone around me is pregnant except me but it seems that those days are geting less and less. I have alot of hope that my beautiful husband and I will have a baby soon. x

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